My partner has dementia: what help can we get?

Help after a dementia diagnosis, from NHS guidance: a care plan, a needs assessment, a carer's assessment, Carer's Allowance and NHS continuing healthcare.

Last reviewed 3 min readBy Lift College Editorial

CPD guide

After a dementia diagnosis, the NHS says the person should have a care plan, and can ask their local council's social services for a needs assessment if they need help with everyday tasks like washing, dressing or cooking. If you care for them, you can ask the council for a carer's assessment and may be eligible for Carer's Allowance. If their care needs relate mainly to their health, they may qualify for free NHS continuing healthcare. The Lift College Dementia Awareness Training course includes supporting carers.

A care plan

The NHS says that after a diagnosis you should have a care plan, setting out what care you and the people who care for you might need. It should include:

  • how you can keep doing the things that matter to you for as long as possible
  • information about services that can help, and how to access them
  • any health conditions that need regular monitoring
  • the name of a health or social care person who coordinates your support

It should be reviewed at least once a year. Local services, such as a memory assessment service, the council and a GP, can help develop it.

A needs assessment from the council

If the person needs help with everyday tasks, the NHS advises asking the local council's social services for a needs assessment, ideally face to face, with a relative or friend there to help explain and take notes. If it finds they need help, such as a carer for washing and dressing, meals delivered at home or a personal alarm, a financial assessment then works out how much they will pay towards it.

Help for you as a carer

The NHS says if you care for someone with dementia you may be eligible for Carer's Allowance and support from your local council, and you should ask for a carer's assessment before receiving any help from the council.

NHS continuing healthcare

If a person with dementia has care needs that relate mainly to their health, the NHS says they may qualify for free NHS continuing healthcare, assessed by NHS staff.

Staying at home or moving to a care home

The NHS says many people with mild to moderate dementia can stay in their own home and live well with enough support. As symptoms get worse, many eventually need a residential or nursing home that offers dementia care.

Where this applies

This guide follows NHS guidance for England. Arrangements differ in Scotland, Wales and Northern Ireland.

Training

Lift College Dementia Awareness Training is 1.5 hours in 5 modules, including person centred care, communication and supporting carers, with a CPD Standards Office accredited certificate the same day you pass.

Frequently asked questions

My husband has dementia: what help can I get?
Ask your local council for a needs assessment for him and a carer's assessment for you. You may be eligible for Carer's Allowance, and he should have a care plan.
What is a dementia care plan?
A plan, made after diagnosis, setting out the care and services a person with dementia and their carers need, with a named coordinator. The NHS says it should be reviewed at least once a year.
What is a needs assessment?
An assessment by the local council's social services of the help someone needs with everyday tasks, such as washing, dressing or cooking. A means test then sets what they pay.
Can carers of people with dementia get financial help?
The NHS says you may be eligible for Carer's Allowance and support from your local council. Ask the council for a carer's assessment first.
Do people with dementia get free NHS care?
If their care needs relate mainly to their health, they may qualify for free NHS continuing healthcare, assessed by NHS staff.
Can someone with dementia stay at home?
The NHS says many people with mild to moderate dementia can stay at home and live well with enough support. Many eventually need a care home as symptoms worsen.

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